How to Shop for a Second Hand Wedding Dress?

How to Shop for a Second Hand Wedding Dress?

Second-hand wedding dress shopping can be very rewarding as used wedding dresses are just as beautiful and perfect as their new counterparts. Shopping for a used wedding dress can be considerably more budget friendly but often you can also find past styles that you couldn’t get anymore from your basic wedding dress boutique. You might have heard that you have to pay special attention for many things when you are looking for a used gown. So how to shop for a second hand wedding dress? Keep reading and learn the 4 points I swear by.

So how to shop for a second hand wedding dress?

There are many reasons why brides decide on a second hand wedding dress. Maybe you want to find a style that’s not available anymore, to save money, to be more ecological or to use a dress that has been used by a family member or friend as a sentiment towards that person. There are many tales about a bride who walked to a boutique and found her dream dress but we love to read when brides share their stories about second hand gowns.

For the most parts there’s not that much difference when it comes to new or used wedding dresses, but some things are good to know as you might not have a sale-assistants or a designers helping you with shopping. These things are:

1. time it takes to find the dress,

2. the dress size,

3. things to look out for and

4. the fit of the dress. 

Let’s dig deeper and learn to shop for a second hand wedding dress.

 

1. Start your dress search early

When you buy a new wedding dress you can just check which stores carry the brands you like and then go to try on the dresses.

It is different with second hand dresses.

You can’t be sure when you’ll find the dress you love in the right size so start the search early enough. Sometimes you can find one right away, sometimes finding the right dress can take a year or so. It depends on what kind of style you’re looking for and what sizes are available.

If you have a very clear picture about the dress you want or you want one from a certain designer, the more time you need. 

Places to search for a second-hand wedding dress:

  • Second-hand wedding dress boutiques
  • Websites for selling and buying wedding dresses
  • Facebook groups
  • Craigslist
  • Second-hand and vintage stores
  • Wedding fair events for selling and buying second-hand dresses

2. Know our own dress size – Get measured

Knowing your own size and measurements is absolutely essential for finding a dress that fits you well because you might not have a sales assistant to help you out. Your basic jersey shirt S/M/L -sizes are not cutting it in this case. Get yourself properly measured by a friend, family member, at a clothing store, or by a seamstress.

The important measurements are your bust, waist and the widest part of your hips.

You can try to take these measurements by yourself, but make sure that the measuring tape is straight and does not tip up or down. If you wish to wear the dress with high heels then wear those while taking the measurements.  If possible, ask someone to assist you with measuring.

Knowing your measurements makes buying a dress much easier – even if you are buying from internet. 

 

Basic measurements to use while shopping for a second-hand wedding dress

1. Bust

Measure on the largest part of your bust and make sure the measuring tape is is straight.

2. Waist

Measure the narrowest part of the waist.

3. Hips

Measure the widest part of your hips

4. Height

Your height.

5. Hem length (front)

Stand straight, place the end of the measuring tape (where 0 is) on your waist. Ask a helper to read the measurement that hits the ground. Don’t bend because that will affect the measurement.

3. Always aim to see the dress live before buying it

Seeing the dress with your own eyes is important to spot all the small things that are easy to overlook at pictures. This way you will also see the color and tone of the dress, and feel the fabric. Hopefully you’ll also have a chance to try the dress on to see how it fits on you. 

If you have can’t to see the dress live ask if you can return the gown in case the fit is absolutely wrong. If you can’t return the dress, try to get as much info and pictures as possible before you decide on buying. 

TIP:

To see the color live you can also ask if the seller has any extra fabric available to send you by mail. You can also ask for a picture of the dress taken next to basic white printer paper to see how creamy or bright white the wedding dress is. 

Things to look out on second-hand dresses:

Dirt or stains

The length of the hem

Possible rips

Odours and scents

Has the dress been altered? How?

Designer and style name/number

4. Check the fit

The most important things you should look out for when trying on any dress is the fit. Pay attention on how the dress fits on your bust and hips, as they are most likely the widest parts. If the wedding dress has sleeves, then the shoulders and back are the most important when it comes to fit.

Usually it’s easier to take a dress in than it’s to let out.  If you have to choose, rather take a size bigger than a size smaller. If the dress seems to raise up around your hips (fabric makes horizontal stripes), the hip is bit too tight for you. Check the inside seems in case there’s extra to let the dress out for you.

Most dresses can be fixed when it comes to fit, but the safest bet is to not go over one size up or down. Learn more about most common wedding dress alterations

Here you go! Hopefully these second hand wedding dress shopping tips will help to find your dream dress from all the awesome used wedding dresses out there. To get more great wedding dress tips read Thorough Guide for Wedding Dress Shopping and 4 Wedding Dress Tips to Take Your Wedding Day Look From Good to Gorgeous! 

P.S Did you notice the free wedding outfit planner? It has checklists, tips, fillable vendor info pages and budget sheets for you to manage every aspect of your wedding day look like a styling pro. Go and get it! I promise it’ll be very helpful while juggling all the hairstylist and dress fitting dates. <3

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      Iida

Iida Silvennoinen

Iida Silvennoinen

Designer, author, blogger

Iida is a bridal designer at Heili Bridal and her passion is to help brides feel special in their big day. She grew up in the middle of wedding dresses and has been dressing brides in all shapes and sizes for years. She loves gardening and relaxed evenings at home.

Iida Silvennoinen is the author of The Wedding Dress Book in which she walks the bride through the wedding dress searching and shopping.

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What to wear when getting ready in the wedding morning

What to wear when getting ready in the wedding morning

I’m the first to admit that I didn’t think about my wedding morning outfit when I got married. I most likely just threw something clean on before tackling the last decorating and food prepping (it was DIY wedding in every sense). BUT what you wear during the wedding morning is very much practical thing to think through before hand as I have come to learn later during my career. 

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Wedding morning outfit – or more like half a day outfit

 

Depending on your wedding day timetable, you might get into your wedding dress much later during the day. Like well beyond midday. There is often plenty of action and things to do during the morning. The busiest brides might even do last ceremony site or reception site decorating, before rushing to hairdresser or to make up. You also need to eat something during the day and possibly drive and meet people so you just cannot be naked or in your underwear all morning even if you would like to. 

In this blog post I give you the main points when it comes to picking the getting ready outfit and explaining why they are so important. In the end you can find a collage of clothing pieces I would most likely pick for myself in case I got another go for my wedding morning. 

What should your wedding morning outfit be like?

1. Easy to put on and take off

This is number one thing in my mind, as you should get your hair and makeup done before going anywhere near the wedding dress. To keep the hairdo and eyeshadow intact, I would advise to not wear anything that needs to be taken off over the head. 

Put on something that you can zip, button up or tie around your upper body to avoid messing your face or hair. This also makes it easier to layer up or down depending of the climate. For some there might be plenty of driving around to hairdresser,  hotel or the ceremony site so you might need to adjust your layer to some places. 

2. Comfort comes first

Many wedding dresses are not designed comfort in mind. Wedding day is often long and wedding dresses can be sweaty, tight, unbending, heavy or even scratchy. (Bonus tip: when it comes to embroidery, avoid dresses that have beading right underneath your armpits.)

That’s why it’s so important to be as comfortable as you can and the wedding morning is a perfect time to give yourself a break and wear something soft and loose. This way you feel good and can handle the possible annoyments of the wedding dress way better rest of the day. 

 

3. Avoid clothes that leave marks on your body – loose garments are your friends

This is a great tip especially if your wedding dress is very open. Many clothes we wear tend to leave marks after they have been on for some time. Bras are particularly bothersome in this sense. Depending on the cut of your dress and your own body, the marks can still be visible when it’s time to walk to the ceremony. If you’re getting your photographs taken before the ceremony, this is even more important.

Loose fitting clothes that have as few drawstrings, buttons or tight parts as possible are best bet for the wedding morning outfit. If you have more modest and closed wedding dress, this is not so important when it comes to visibility, but more when it comes to feeling good. 

 4. Wear something that will look nice in the pictures

The last thing I want to talk about is of course how you prefer to look like in the photos of your wedding morning. For many this might be really important. Most likely there will be pictures of you getting ready so think what you want to look like in the photos. 

Feeling pretty starts from the inside, so it’s great to feel pretty and comfortable in the morning before slipping into your dream dress. It makes the whole day a bit more special too. Wear something you feel nice and good and what feels like you. If you’re planning to buy something new, kill two birds with one stone and pick clothes you can pack with you to the honeymoon! It’s luxurious to build a proper bridal trousseau like that, I think. Even if the clothes itself aren’t super expensive couture pieces. 

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My Perfect Wedding Morning Outfit -plan

This is what I could wear in the wedding morning if I did the whole wedding thing again. (Not that I want to. I’m still stupidly in love with my spouse and wedding was tough work you know.) The pictures are examples I picked to show what kind of clothes would be really good as a getting ready outfit. 

1. Basic loose tank top I can easily slip down and step of is a perfect choice for wedding morning. This top also gives just a little bit of support on boob-region so I can skip the bra altogether. The top in picture is a basic Walmart tank top.

2. Palazzo pants that are soft, loose and easy going that I could use even outside if needed. Something that would not look totally like pj’s. The white pinstriped ones are by Michael Kors.

3. Plaid shirt was the first item I picked, as I basically live in one anyway. It’s very me and easy to get on and off. I would like bit longer one so I could almost use it as a tunic if needed. This one is by Black Bison Outfitters.

6. The morning robe is a classic piece for a wedding morning. If I needed to pick just one thing to wear it would be the robe, as it’s so easy to change into and out off and most of them look beautiful! Robes also look really dreamy in pictures! This is by EzPlaza.

7. Short pyjama bottoms are super cute and go well with the robe. This pair is by Matches Fashion via Port, but sadly they are out of stock. Shorts are silk with chantilly lace and would be a nice little luxury detail that would work wonderfully well for honeymoon too.

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 More practical wedding dress tips and good to know stuff

There’s so much when it comes to wedding dresses and wedding day outfits. I have written few blog posts for you that go over some basic things about wedding fashion. I would also recommend downloading my FREE Bride’s Trousseau wedding outfit planner, where I share more tips about every aspect of wedding day outfit and checklists and budget sheets for you to organize your wedding outfit dates and vendors like a professional. 

Or read more about need-to-know wedding dress stuff from the blog posts:

 

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If you have any questions or things you want us to blog about, please send us a message and we will do our best to be right back to you. Have a wonderful week! Don’t forget to check out our other social media sites for more tips and news. P.S Our new The Wedding Dress -ebook for brides is out at Heili Bridal’s shop.

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Love,

      Iida

Iida Silvennoinen

Iida Silvennoinen

Designer, author, blogger

Iida is a bridal designer at Heili Bridal and her passion is to help brides feel special in their big day. She grew up in the middle of wedding dresses and has been dressing brides in all shapes and sizes for years. She loves gardening and relaxed evenings at home.

Iida Silvennoinen is the author of The Wedding Dress Book in which she walks the bride through the wedding dress searching and shopping.

START THE JOURNEY TOWARDS THE PERFECT WEDDING DRESS!

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Best Wedding Dress Shopping Tips – Thorough Wedding Dress Guide

Best Wedding Dress Shopping Tips – Thorough Wedding Dress Guide

Pinterest is full of tips about wedding dress shopping. The problem is how all that information is scattered around internet and magazine pages, little nuggets of gold here and there. Hence, I wanted to write very straight lined step by step guide for wedding dresses that has everything in between the covers! (Can you say so about eBook?)

The Wedding Dress ebook

by Iida Silvennoinen for Heili Bridal

Get the Step By Step Guide To The Wonderful Wedding Dress that makes you feel comfortable, beautiful and self confident, so that you love your dress at your wedding day and beyond!

Learn To Find The Perfect Dress

Surely, wedding dress must be one of the most planned outfit in one’s life and usually pretty expensive. Therefore, nobody wants to muck it up. Often I meet the brides at the end of their dress journey and try to solve any and all problems they might have. However many of those could be avoided with right information at the very beginning of wedding dress shopping.

This ebook is not a history book nor a fashion one, but the kind of guide I would have wanted to read before my own wedding five years ago. I wrote down EVERYTHING I could think about that bride needs to know about a wedding dress shopping for instance. During the last decade, I have discovered the best information while working with dresses and brides.

“Lovely colorway and illustrations. The book is written in a cute manner and it has tangible examples. It leaves you in a lovely mood and clarifies how to choose the right dress.”

Emilia – instagram @emiliaseppanen

“”It’s a great book! I loved the colors and illustrations! The pictures of necklines and hem shapes etc. were really good and useful. I liked that the book starts with how to find a dress that one likes and which fits well.” 

Linda – instagram @lindatuulias

What’s included in the eBook?

Did you know that I once melted my sister’s graduation dress the morning at the graduation while ironing it? Still I got the gown saved (pheff!) and learned a good lesson.  The things I talk in the book = My own experiences! 

In the Wedding Dress Book, you’ll learn how to get a beautiful, well fitting wedding dress that you feel comfortable in, with the budget you have. Also you’ll learn how to avoid dress disasters and what it takes to polish the wedding day look into perfection!

6 in depth chapters with over 28 sub categories and over 70 pages

This thorough guide takes you from the very beginning of wedding dress shopping to the afterwards of wedding not missing a single step in between. From an idea to the store to home to the wedding day and beyond, everything can be found from the book.

Often forgotten info about underwear and shoes

Underwear and shoes can make a huge difference. So harness that knowledge for the best possible fit and look with your wedding dress even if you’re not a fashion professional.

Strategies for real small budget dresses

Discover ’out of the box’ strategies to find dresses fit to even the smallest budget. In short, save money.

A visual guide to dress silhouettes

See all the dress silhouettes, different veils and trains before making a decision what you want.

Wedding dress material glossary

Learn the materials most often used in wedding dresses and their pros and cons. Learn the right terms for explaining and searching for the dresses you really want to try on while wedding dress shopping.

Practical tips for dress fittings

Getting a best possible fit and comfort for your wedding dress isn’t rocket-science. Above all, you just need to know what to look out for.

Why listen to me about wedding dress shopping?

I’m Iida Silvennoinen, professional designer and blogger. I have worked with clothes over ten years and after receiving my academic degree on clothing and fabric design I started the wedding brand Heili Bridal. 

My brand, products and services have been featured for instance at Paris Fashion Week, Four Weddings, Fashion Week Online and Miss International Beauty Pageant. Heili Bridal was also chosen to the Wedding Business Of The Year -2018 final at the end of our first year in business.

I have tested, researched and studied well fitting dresses and learned tons of things that make difference when it comes to clothes. This ebook was written because I want to help people. Most importantly, I hope you find it extremely useful in while wedding dress shopping!

To your happily ever after!

Iida Silvennoinen

Start your journey to the perfect wedding dress!

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      Iida

Iida Silvennoinen

Iida Silvennoinen

Designer, author, blogger

Iida is a bridal designer at Heili Bridal and her passion is to help brides feel special in their big day. She grew up in the middle of wedding dresses and has been dressing brides in all shapes and sizes for years. She loves gardening and relaxed evenings at home.

Iida Silvennoinen is the author of The Wedding Dress Book in which she walks the bride through the wedding dress searching and shopping.

10 Reasons to Have a Winter Wedding

10 Reasons to Have a Winter Wedding

Winter – the time of slower and darker days – can be an ideal wedding seasons. We are in love with the romantic and ambient time: There’s special kind of magic in the air that you can’t find in summer or spring. If you are in the spot of figuring out your wedding date it’s a good time to think also the other half of the year. It can really save you some money and make the most unforgettable wedding party!

Winter wedding can be a really versatile option

Why to have a winter wedding might be the question that many brides are asking. Yes, we are very used to the idea of getting married in the heart of summer – even spring and autumn – but many people forget all the unexpected perks that come when you get married in winter.

1. You can pick the venue and vendors you want

Winter is slow wedding season so there’s lots of venues and vendors available even in short notice. If you have tried planning a wedding for summer you might have noticed that many churches and popular venues are booked for years to come. With a winter wedding you have much wider range of venues to choose from. As winter is a slower time for wedding vendors also you get better flexibility for dress fittings and your dream graphic designer probably has a free spot. 

 

2. Seasonal pricing

It’s a well known fact that demand affects prices which means that in winter time you might get a beautiful but costly venue for a much better price. Many vendors also start handing out discounts to fill the quiet time of the year so keep your eyes open for those “Get January for 30% off” deals. Also with now world wide events like Black Friday and Cyber Monday are great times to make wedding investments. 

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3. Take advantage of already decorated venues

Many brides say that the decoration is what keeps sucking up the money and also takes more time than you planned for it. Well, you lucky bride, in winter time holiday decorations is done in most of the hotels, churches etc. That means free wedding decor for you which means more savings, yay! If you love a certain venue for it’s overall style chances are that you will also love their seasonal decoration. Nowadays many places also really invest in their holiday decoration so you might get an exclusive venue styling by accident. All you have to do is to make sure that the decoration matches your wedding style and add some carefully planned details.

 

4. Not all the weekends are booked

Winter is an off season for weddings which means that you don’t have to be afraid that your favorite guests might have another wedding on the same date – probably not even the same month. In summer time it is not exceptional that most of the weekends are filled with different weddings in different cities so people are definitely going to appreciate that you decided to get married off season. After the holidays are over people are going to want something nice to put on their calendars before spring finally approaches. 

 

5. Recycle your holiday decoration

Lots of possibilities to use lights and holiday decor in your wedding (you might own lots of nice things already or you can reuse them afterwards). Ask around if you can borrow decorations from your family and friends. Lanterns, fake trees, garlands, fairy lights and glittering ornaments are all great when it comes to wedding decorating. 

6. Stay cooler in a big dress

Did you know that wedding gowns can make you really sweaty? Think about all that tulle and fabric creating a big air pocket for your legs. That’s how down jackets work. Good thing is, in winter you can get as a big dress as you want and you still can dance without melting into puddle. 

7. Get decoration for better price

There’s great deals for candles and light fixtures, especially after the holidays. Holiday ornaments are also available in every possible color and price range so you’ll most likely find a style suitable for you. Scout the things you would like to have when they come to the shops and hit the stores just before or after holiday days. Most of them are 20 to 50% off just before holidays and even 70 to 80% off afterwards. Don’t forget to check web stores also!

8. Great time to really dress up

Winter weddings are a perfect time to wear capes and shawls and they make great keepsakes and you can wear them afterwards too. Also what a better time to wear a colored wedding dress? For an ambient winter wedding why not try black, red or gold wedding gown that you can also wear later.

 

9. You don’t have to worry about your makeup

With cooler weather your makeup will stay on place much better than in the summer heat and that means you won’t be sweating it off first thing before ceremony. In the summer time people usually prefer to wear lighter makeup therefore in a winter wedding you can pull off a really beautiful and dramatic look.  Also when it gets darker you don’t have to worry about smudging eyeliner – no one’s going to see that anyway in the candle light!

 

10. Your curls will hold up

Summer might be the time for updos because of the heat and sweaty neck. On the contrary winter is the time that you can let your hair down without a worry about getting too hot.  And if you do get hot then just a visit outside will cool you down immediately. Curls will hold up nicely in a dry, brisk air. But if your wedding is in a climate where winters are wet rather than gold then maybe check out those updos just in case.

Tackling the winter wedding blues

Of course there are some downsides to winter wedding but if you really think, that happens with every season. So here are some of the biggest blues and how to turn them to your advantage.

Busy holidays!

Winter months might not be crowded byt weddings but there are other events and holidays that are really important to people. In November and December there is the countdown with holiday preparations but when the yearly wheel has turned to a new year people might actually love to have something nice in their calendars.

Send out the save the dates early enough and prepare mentally that some people won’t make it in any case (which is true for any party). Also be considerate about people’s holidays. Different religions have their own sacred times so if you know that some people on your guest list have a different practice than you do it is polite to think when it really is possible for them to attend your wedding. Don’t make people choose between their holidays and your party, that’s just not nice!

 

The Weather

In the winter months you really can’t be sure what you wake up to. In a way it is the beauty of these slower months but I totally understand if you want to be well prepared when it comes to your wedding day. Well, in winter it can obviously get really gold or then it’s raining. You probably want to opt out from outside photography if it’s rainy and muddy. Also make sure that you have well enough time to move from place A to B because you don’t want to be in a hurry on icy roads!

Weather and temperature also plays to your bridal look. To make the best of the gold days consider a gown with long sleeves (that would look awesome!) or get a cape or a shawl that will match your outfit. Winter weather offers so many options to dress up your look! Also if the reception is in a chilly building then why not to offer your guests blankets and warm drinks?

 

Unexpected light conditions

If you live in the north, the light can get really low even during the day. Or it can be super bright as the sun rays will be jumping back and forth on the snow. Either way it is best to discuss with your photographer about the best time to take your photos or get them taken in the studio. If you have a reception in – let’s say – a mansion, remember to ask if the photographer is familiar with the light in the location and if they will be able to bring extra flash and lighting supplies for the portraits.

So as the photography might be a concern (don’t worry too much, it’ll be alright!) the atmosphere is definitely on your side! What a better time to create ambient and intimate spaces than winter. Think about old time charm and light the venue with candles and fairy lights. Maybe read about hygge for some inspiration. Dark winter days are perfect time to create an unforgettable set for your wedding.

 

Expensive flowers

Flowers are seasonal and so are the prices. You might have guessed that during the winter time some flowers are much expensive than in summer when they are in season. But if you don’t have your heart set on a full peony bouquet then you really don’t have to worry! You can get greenery for reasonable price all around the year and why not to take advantage on holiday flowers like amaryllis, hyacinths, roses, tulips and hellebores. It really is all about the design when it comes to decorating with seasonal stuff.

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So if you can handle the cold, don’t mind the darker atmosphere and peonies are not a must in your bouquet, you can have a wonderful, ambient wedding with a smaller budget. People will certainly remember your wedding! For more winter wedding inspiration check my inspiration boards: Minimalist Wedding Inspiration With Mint, Gingerbread Christmas Wedding, Cinderella Winter Wedding, Blue and White Scandinavian Winter Wedding and Woodland Christmas Wedding.

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Love,

      Iida

Iida Silvennoinen

Iida Silvennoinen

Designer, author, blogger

Iida is a bridal designer at Heili Bridal and her passion is to help brides feel special in their big day. She grew up in the middle of wedding dresses and has been dressing brides in all shapes and sizes for years. She loves gardening and relaxed evenings at home.

Iida Silvennoinen is the author of The Wedding Dress Book in which she walks the bride through the wedding dress searching and shopping.

START THE JOURNEY TOWARDS THE PERFECT WEDDING DRESS!

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4 Wedding Dress Tips to take your wedding look from good to gorgeous!

4 Wedding Dress Tips to take your wedding look from good to gorgeous!

Your wedding day look is so much more than just the wedding dress. The hair and makeup, shoes and accessories all play critical role in making your wedding day look whole. But is goes beyond that because the look is more than its individual parts! In this blog post I introduce four wedding dress tips and explain how to take your wedding day look from good to fabulous and give some pointers how to manage the whole outfit and all the details.

Wedding Dress Tips –

Beyond The Wedding Dress

Planning a wedding can be really overwhelming because there’s just so much to decide and do! Now here I am telling you that to make yourself look the dazzling bride you are dreaming about you have to manage tons of more little details that take money and time. I’m not judging if you feel like making a hasty exit back to Pinterest and to continue looking at those gorgeous dress pictures. I most likely would.

BUT those pictures look so very beautiful because they have been styled and fixed very thoroughly. (There might also be some photoshop used…) Those dresses are dressed over proper underwear and just the right kind of petticoats to make their silhouettes perfect. They fit, and they are clean and unwrinkled. You follow me yet? Wedding dress tips coming!

With this 70+ pages long Wedding Dress eBook, you’ll learn how to get a beautiful, well fitting wedding dress that you feel comfortable in, with the budget you have. Also you’ll learn how to avoid dress disasters and what it takes to polish the wedding day look into perfection!

My Four Steps For Gorgeous Look

In short the secret to take your wedding look from good to dazzling is to work the whole outfit and going beneath the surface instead of just concentrating to the wedding dress. Everything is styled and thought trough from hair and make-up to underwear. Jewelry and accessories to make the outfit look whole and neat and alterations to make the dress fit well. Keep scrolling and I’ll explain the four wedding dress tips in more detail!

underwear

Proper undergarments are the most important thing when it comes to how the dress looks and feels. Some dresses might have corsets and bras sewn inside, but in most cases the supports are flimsy.

Your body may be really toned and fit and you don’t feel like you need any slimming or support, however the good underwear protects the dress from oils and sweat. Secondly it also protects you from friction and makes sure the dress itself drapes beautifully on your body.

Number one reason why the dress you bought doesn’t look like in the picture you’ve seen is because it lacks petticoat. Some bridal boutiques have only one or two models that they offer, so it pays to do some googling to find the perfect fit to your dress as underskirts come in several different shapes and sizes.

alterations

To make the dress really fit you, it often needs some alterations. Hemming is the most typical of them, maybe shortening straps or making some adjustments on waist or bustle. To make your dress fit like a glove, take it to the seamstress to get a professional opinion and help.

Usually the first evaluation is free and you can always decide what you want to be done, you’re in charge after all. A good seamstress can point out things you might not notice and therefore make you feel much more confident with your dress.

Meanwhile If you haven’t got your undergarments yet, now it’s the moment to get them. Your seamstress might even be able to give you some advice or resources if you need.

Nearly every dress needs some alteration done and we have listed the 10 most common ones here!

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Accessories

Accessories give the wedding dress the final touch and take it from the garment to an outfit. From my professional view the wedding outfit with just a hairdo can look bare and unfinished. I strongly advice you to get something on your head, for example small pearls or flowers or a bridal hat or a veil. In addition headwear also gives nice details for photographs which are taken behind.

When it comes to bridal jewels I personally like something classy and matching with the rings. Pearls are always a good choice in my mind. You can also easily include colors or family keepsakes in the form of jewels.

With shoes go the comfort first as you’ll be on your feet long time. Get something you can easily walk with and get them early enough so you can use them in your dress fittings.

Hair and Make-up

Neat is the word when it comes to make-up and hair. However I don’t mean you should get everything sleeked down but make sure the products you use can hold through the day and that your style works in photos.

Smudgy, runny face is something that easily downgrades the whole look. That is why you should go with less if you’re not sure how well the make-up will stay. Having bit less also means you can touch up your face during the day without getting too much pigment and cake’y end result.

Open curls get easily straightened by humid air especially if you have long hair without much natural texture. Keeping your hair even half way up makes sure your style keeps well into the evening. 

With these four wedding dress tips you’ll upgrade your wedding dress and your wedding look from good to gorgeous. To make your wedding outfit planning even more easier we want to give you a free printable wedding planner which focuses on your whole wedding day look and outfit details.

Free Wedding outfit Planner – wedding dress tips and more

Bride’s Trousseau planner breaks the wedding outfit into small details including all the things above and also your honeymoon clothes and going away outfit. Moreover it helps you to keep up with your budget, important dates and vendor contact details.  Checklists, tips and good advice make the planner even more handy for you. In addition there’s also plenty of space for your own notes. The pretty and romantic planner beautifies any home office table or nightstand. Talk about an organized bride!

The Bride’s Trousseau has all the essentials

Budgeting sheet
Dress shopping section
Hair, Make-Up and Beauty pages
Emergency Kit checklist
Honeymoon packing tips
Wedding Outfit Tips
Checklists for underwear and accessories
Space for notes, contact infos and important dates

Plan your whole wedding outfit with this FREE planner!

18 pages of checklists, tips, budgeting help and space for your personal notes.

To get more great wedding dress tips read our blog posts Avoid These 3 Mistakes When Training For Your Bridal Body, 10 Most Common Wedding Dress Alterations You Should Now About and Thorough Guide For Wedding Dress Shopping. Just click the images below. Heili Bridal operates also in Finnish, so if you have any questions don’t hesitate to message us!

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      Iida

Iida Silvennoinen

Iida Silvennoinen

Designer, author, blogger

Iida is a bridal designer at Heili Bridal and her passion is to help brides feel special in their big day. She grew up in the middle of wedding dresses and has been dressing brides in all shapes and sizes for years. She loves gardening and relaxed evenings at home.

Iida Silvennoinen is the author of The Wedding Dress Book in which she walks the bride through the wedding dress searching and shopping.

START THE JOURNEY TOWARDS THE PERFECT WEDDING DRESS!

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10 most common wedding dress alterations that you should know about

10 most common wedding dress alterations that you should know about

Everyone wants a perfectly beautiful wedding dress that fits like a glove, right? There might be some unexpected steps to the dress bliss as finding the perfect wedding dress doesn’t always mean that it fits you flawlessly. In some rare occasions you can take your wedding dress from the store straight to the wedding but most brides need to have alterations done to the dress. We have listed some alterations from the most common to the not so common. 

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Consult a seamstress with no hesitation

Every bride and dress is unique so everyone needs different things. Usually when you shop for the dress the store assistant lets you know about the needed alterations but some things you figure out when you visit your seamstress. If you aren’t sure what to get done don’t hesitate to ask. Consultations are usually free and with a professional seamstress  you can figure out a plan together. If you know that you are going to train or lose weight for the wedding a professional seamstress can take your changing body in to account when doing the alterations.

 A trained seamstress is a great help when it comes to perfecting your bridal look, but it also helps if you are well informed about your other style decisions. Taking your bridal look from good to perfect is much more than just having a perfectly fitting dress and we have gathered some tips for you to read!

We are all about healthy exercise routines and it can be a true mood booster when the ups and downs of wedding planning hit hard. But all the fitness isn’t the same and if you are shopping for a dress long before the big day it is good to keep few things in mind. Read all of our exercise tips from the blogpost!

1. Shortening the hem

It is common that the manufacturers make the wedding dress hem extra long so it will also fit the taller customers. Shortening the hem is the most common alteration and we do it to almost every customer that comes to visit us. It is hard to estimate a price for this work as it can be anything between 38-300€ depending on the layers and if there is lace that needs to be taken off before adding it back to the final hem length.

Most wedding dresses need to have the hem shortened. There are various hem lengths for different styles and this bespoke 1950’s style wedding dress is tea length as is very typical for the era.

2. Train loop and button

Train loops are those little ribbon loops attached to your dresses train that make it possible to lift the train later in the day to make moving around the reception easier (to bustle up the dress so to speak). Basically there are two types of train loops:

  1.  the long one that you hold in your hand when you dance, and
  2. the short one that buttons right under your bum.

The later has 1-3 loops and buttons to gather the train and it is more requested because it lets both of your hands be free. There’s several different style of bustles: overbustle, under- or french bustle, drawstring- or austrian bustle, waterfall bustle etc. Some store bought dresses have one or another train loop/bustle but surprisingly many gowns need these attached later.

From the Wedding Dress Book, you’ll learn how to get a beautiful, well fitting wedding dress that you feel comfortable in, with the budget you have. Also you’ll learn how to avoid dress disasters and what it takes to polish the wedding day look into perfection!

3. Taking in/out on the hips and waist

Every body is beautiful and unique so it is really hard to manufacture dresses that would fit everyone. That means it is common to take the dress in or out on the side seams. When you are shopping for a wedding dress always consult the sales assistant how much it is possible to alter the dress size. Usually it is easier to take the dress in because then you don’t have to worry if the old seam will show.

It is important to make sure that the wedding dress is well fitting on the waist, bust and hips. These are key points to achieving the perfect silhouette. If you are shopping a dress of the rack then remember to consult a sails assistant about the alteration possibilities.

4. Taking in around the chest

Many store bought dresses are quite generous when it comes to chest size. We have noticed that the shape might need some alteration so that the neckline won’t make a gutter when you look down. This alteration is a little bit trickier than the ones mentioned before but it is also very doable so don’t hesitate to ask your seamstress.

5. Shortening the straps

Many wedding gowns are made with a little bit longer straps so that they will fit a wide range of brides. This is very easy alteration and depending on the gown costs only 20-50€.

A beautiful budget wedding dress – magic words that most of the brides want to hear. Here is our 10 tips to make your basic wedding dress look like straight out of the catwalk or red carpet a.k.a classy and expensive. Great mix of diy and no sew tips and seamstress alterations all aimed to make you look like million bucks at your wedding day. Read all tips at from the blogpost!

6. Adding a waist stay

Waist stay is a ribbon or an elastic band that goes inside your dress and fits snug on your waist. We recommend adding this to your strapless gown if it doesn’t have it. It works miracles when it comes to keeping your dress on the right place as it prevents your gown from sliding down. That means no more yanking your strapless dress up. Wait stay is an easy alteration that only costs around 25€. You can read this and tons of more crucial wedding dress tips from our  wedding dress guide

There is so much you can do to a wedding dress. It is possible to transform the back completely: opening it up or adding more cover.

7. Altering the neckline

Neckline alterations are very common request and it’s easy to make a big impact. Alteration goes both ways as you can have the neckline opened or closed. Cost varies a lot depending on the style you want. It always helps if you have inspiration pictures ready when you consult a seamstress.

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8. Altering the back

No matter the style of your wedding dress it is usually possible to alter the back. You may want it open when some of the material is taken away. It is also possible to build for example a lace back to a strapless gown. This is one of our favourite kind of alteration as it requires some designing eye to make a plan for the back with the bride. If you are going to request an alteration for your wedding dress’s back make sure that you have some inspiration pictures when you consult your seamstress. This is a bit more expensive alteration so be prepared to pay starting from 150€.

Altering the wedding dresses back and closure is commonly requested change to a read made dress. It has a great impact and is usually rather cost efficient.

9. Altering the closure

Does your wedding dress have a zipper but you dream about a long line of buttons? Or would you rather have a corset back? Altering the closure is surprisingly common and not even a difficult alteration. Just ask your seamstress what is possible!

10. Adding sleeves or doing other special alteration

Sometimes we just can’t find the perfect wedding dress of the rack. That is when bigger alterations come to question and it is possible to do a lot for a dress. We recommend buying a dress that is as close to your dream as possible and then consult a seamstress for bigger alteration. One of the most common big alteration is adding sleeves but you can also ask for fuller hem, added lace or a big train. You don’t have to compromise your style even if you aren’t getting a made to measure gown.

Here you can see one of the bigger wedding dress alteration we have done. The first picture is the dress we worked with (by danish brand Lilly) and the second is the altered wedding dress. We added beautiful lace to the bodice part and some extra tulle to the hem. You can read more about this wedding dress alterion from the blog post here – Wedding Dress Lace Overlay Before And After.

Getting the perfect dress

 

Alterations can be divided into two groups: those you absolutely need to get done and those that alter the dress to a style you like better.

Both are important because your wedding dress should be perfect for you. There is absolutely no need to settle with a dress that isn’t exactly what you want and usually after a well done alteration you get the dream dress moment again as the dress now fits you like a glove. If you’re interested to know more about wedding dresses, check out our thorough guide: The Wedding Dress Book

Read our other wedding dress tips from blog posts 4 Wedding Dress Tips To Take Your Look From Good To Gorgeous, Avoid These 3 Mistakes When Training For Your Bridal Body and Best Wedding Dress Shopping Tips – Thorough Wedding Dress Guide!

P.S Don’t forget to catch our Free wedding day outfit planner with tips, budgeting tools, checklists and space for notes. It’s indispensable organisation help for every bride or bridal party member!

 

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Love,

      Iida

Iida Silvennoinen

Iida Silvennoinen

Designer, author, blogger

Iida is a bridal designer at Heili Bridal and her passion is to help brides feel special in their big day. She grew up in the middle of wedding dresses and has been dressing brides in all shapes and sizes for years. She loves gardening and relaxed evenings at home.

Iida Silvennoinen is the author of The Wedding Dress Book in which she walks the bride through the wedding dress searching and shopping.

START THE JOURNEY TOWARDS THE PERFECT WEDDING DRESS!

The only wedding dress guide you need is here.

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